Taylor Flores
Taylor Flores (she/her) is an LPC at Serengeti Wellness who specializes in providing trauma-informed, culturally sensitive care to adults (18+). Her therapeutic approach is rooted in building authentic, collaborative relationships and draws from modalities such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Holistic Therapy. Taylor is dedicated to creating a supportive and empowering space where clients feel seen, heard, and encouraged to explore their experiences and work toward lasting, meaningful growth.
What is Chronic Illness?
According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), chronic illness is defined as a condition that lasts at least one year and requires ongoing medical attention, limits activities of daily living, or both. Some examples of chronic diseases include autoimmune diseases, pain, diabetes, cancer, epilepsy, heart disease, HIV/AIDS, hypothyroidism, multiple sclerosis, Cystic Fibrosis, Asthma.
Chronic illness can be both physically and emotionally debilitating. While a great deal of focus is placed on managing the physical symptoms of these conditions, the emotional and psychological impact is just as significant. Chronic illness has the ability to disrupt many aspects of daily life, which can lead to a range of mental health challenges that require attention and support.
Effects of Chronic Illness
Getting diagnosed with a chronic illness can create a huge shift in your life. Not only are you dealing with the physical pain and/or limitations, but there is a whole range of emotions that can come up as well. These feelings can change over time, but some of the most common mental health concerns people with chronic illness face include:
Depression and Anxiety
Studies show that people with chronic illness are more likely to experience depression and/or anxiety than the general population. Persistent physical limitations can often be emotionally overwhelming, making it harder to cope with everyday life. Over time, this can exacerbate mental health struggles, creating a cycle where both your physical and emotional well-being are affected.
Grief and Loss
Living with chronic illness often comes with a feeling of loss. You might find it harder to engage in activities you once enjoyed, relationships can shift, and your dreams and goals may need to be modified. It is normal to grieve the loss of a life where your health, autonomy, and freedom were not limited by sickness.
Grief can also include the loss of one’s identity or sense of self. It is important to realize that grieving this loss is a natural response and should be handled with care, compassion, and support.
Isolation
Many people may find it difficult to engage with others due to physical symptoms or the emotional toll of their condition. Friends and family members may not fully understand the severity of the illness, leaving the person feeling misunderstood or unsupported. Additionally,
chronic illness can prevent people from participating in social activities, causing them to retreat into isolation.
Stress and Financial Strain
There are a variety of other stressors when it comes to having chronic illness but one of the most significant is often the financial strain. Medical bills, the cost of treatment, medications, and the potential for the lost income due to an inability to work can all create an overwhelming amount of stress. These financial pressures often compound the emotional burden of managing a chronic illness.
Ways to cope with Chronic Illness
Although living with chronic illness can be extremely overwhelming, there are strategies that can help ease the mental health effects and improve emotional well-being.
Seek Professional Support
Speaking with a therapist can be an invaluable resource. Here you can gain emotional support, learn coping strategies, and process the challenges of living with a chronic condition.
Build a Strong Support Network
Having a strong support system can make a huge difference in managing both the physical impacts and emotional impacts of chronic illness. Some days can be better than others when it comes to managing both chronic illness or mental health, on the days that it is harder to manage, it can be helpful communicating your needs with others so they can better support you. Whether it is reminding you to take your medication, going to a doctor’s appointment with you, helping with meals or personal care, or just being there to listen, offer encouragement, or help problem solve, a strong support system can be one of the most valuable tools for managing chronic illness.
Connecting with others who truly understand your experiences can also help reduce feelings of isolation and provide a sense of belonging. Consider joining a support group or connecting with others who have similar chronic conditions.
Focusing on What is Within Your Control
It can often feel like a loss of control when dealing with chronic illness, by focusing on what you can control instead of what’s outside of your control you can feel a much greater sense of empowerment. This can look like adjusting your daily routine, advocating for your healthcare needs, finding new activities that bring you joy, or even learning more about your illness. By finding small ways to regain a sense of control, you can foster resilience.
Practice Self Compassion
It is common to feel a sense of guilt or shame about not being able to perform at the same level as before, or you may struggle with feelings of frustration and self-judgment. Practicing self compassion means treating yourself with kindness, understanding that it is ok to not have
everything figured out. Give yourself permission to have bad days and celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem.
Chronic illness comes with its fair share of physical and emotional challenges. The mental toll can be heavy, but with the right strategies, support, and resources, it is possible to manage these struggles and still have a fulfilling life. If you or someone you know is feeling overwhelmed by the mental health impacts of chronic illness, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team at Serengeti Wellness for help. Therapy can be a great way to address both the emotional and physical aspects of living with a chronic illness, improving overall well-being and quality of life.
Just remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. Even in tough times, there is strength and resilience to be found!
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